Considering A Divorce? Turn To A Lawyer Who Has Gone Through One And Knows How To Help You.
Divorce is a difficult process. As if the emotional stress isn’t enough to deal with, the legal requirements add another element of anxiety to your world. What can you do to deal with the stress and confusion?
I am Lorri Fishman, a Fort Lauderdale divorce attorney who has been in your shoes. I am a divorced mother who completed the same journey that you are on now.
I also have over 25 years of legal experience to protect you.
I’ll take the time to learn about your circumstances and devote my time and energy to pinpoint your needs. I will work diligently to find options focusing on your goals to help you achieve a brighter future.
Florida Divorce FAQ
When you’re preparing for divorce, endless concerns seem to bubble up to the surface. Let’s address some frequently asked questions:
How long does a divorce usually take in Florida?
The length of a divorce in Florida depends on the details of your case. An uncontested divorce might resolve within a few months, while contested ones take longer, especially if you have children or complex marital assets. While I will do my best to streamline the process for you, I will also focus on finding an efficient and fair resolution.
Will I lose my house if I move out before finalizing my divorce?
Moving out doesn’t automatically forfeit your rights to the family home. Property and debt division are complex matters handled within the divorce proceedings.
However, it’s important to talk to a lawyer before taking a big step like moving out. You can be sure I’ll help you understand the implications of every decision.
How is alimony determined, and can it be awarded permanently?
Florida currently allows three types of alimony:
- Temporary
- Rehabilitative
- Durational
Florida does not allow permanent or lifetime alimony.
Alimony is not guaranteed and hinges on various factors, from financial disparities between spouses to the length of the marriage. I understand these factors and can help you determine how or if it will affect your future financial situation.
I take a hands-on approach to navigating these issues, from filing the appropriate paperwork to representing you in court when necessary.
What financial steps can I take to prepare for my divorce?
You can begin financial preparations even before officially filing for divorce. Start by gathering all relevant financial documents, including, but not limited to:
- Bank statements
- Records of tax returns dating back several years, if possible
- Records of investments
Next, create a detailed list of your assets and debts and develop a budget based on your anticipated financial needs after the divorce. Consulting a financial adviser can also be beneficial.
Mediation or litigation – what should I consider when choosing a divorce method?
When deciding between mediation and litigation, the primary factors to consider are the relative levels of conflict, cooperation and trust between you and your spouse. Ask yourself these questions:
- Can we both negotiate in good faith to reach mutually agreeable resolutions?
- Are we both free to speak our minds and address one another as equals?
- Do I trust that my spouse will be honest and transparent?
If the answer to these questions is yes, mediation is likely a good fit for you. Mediation is typically faster, cheaper and less stressful than litigation, and it gives both parties more control over the outcomes.
Unfortunately, mediation isn’t appropriate for everyone. Litigation may be necessary if there are significant disputes, a history of domestic violence, dishonesty/distrust or other complex issues that require court intervention.
How can I shield my children from the harmful aspects of divorce?
Although kids may need to mourn the fact that their parents are getting divorced, the greatest potential harms stem from exposure to conflict, worries about the future and loss of stability. Here are some tips that may protect your children from the negative effects of divorce:
- Maintain open and honest communication, and listen at least as much as you talk
- Avoid discussing legal matters or speaking negatively about your spouse in their presence
- Keep consistent routines can help provide stability and a sense of control
- Consider giving your kids access to a child therapist, if possible
Every child is different and may need unique types of support tailored to their age and personality.
I suspect my spouse is hiding assets – what should I do?
If you suspect your spouse is hiding assets, gather any evidence you have and discuss your concerns with your attorney. In over 25 years in practice, I have encountered many clients whose spouses have gone to great lengths to take more than their fair share of marital assets. In such cases, I work directly with forensic accounts and other professionals and make full use of the discovery process. When necessary, I am prepared to litigate your divorce in court, ensuring that the judge is aware of your spouse’s attempts to deceive and conceal.
Crossing The ‘T’s And Dotting The ‘I’s
Florida law requires both parties in a divorce to disclose financial information. I will help ensure that your soon-to-be ex complies with the requirements so you receive your fair share. I’ll also guide you through the process so you don’t accidentally miss any assets you must disclose.
I Am Ready To Help You Take The Next Step
I am not just your lawyer, but a partner in this pivotal moment in your life. Call Lorri K. Fishman, P.A., at 954-928-9832 or email me to schedule a free consultation. I’ll use my professional knowledge and personal experience to protect your future.